Interesting insight on how to start over after failed relationships, and that love can always happen again.
Several months ago, I was hanging out with two friends I’ve known since high school – a close girl friend who moved to Chicago and a visiting male, who also happened to be a former flame and my first real love.
The topic turned to relationships and experience in the field and I mentioned the notion of relationship resumes – the list of knowledge, skills and practice we draw from when dealing with significant others or summon on dates, showcasing prior successes, saving the failures for later. Personally, I look for partners who have their resume filled in a bit, like my own, indicating they are not novices to relationships or love.
Turning to the guy, I said, “Like you; I would use you as a reference as an example of one of my successful relationships.”
My friend interjected, “Well I don’t know if I would say you guys had…
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