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What goes around comes around

Walking in the streets of a big city, you find a mother pushing a big bulky and stuffed stroller, a limping man, a homeless person, and many other healthy and fast walking individuals.

The woman with the stroller goes inside a coffee shop on the side of the long and wide street, trying to escape the heavy rain outside, and reaching for some adrenaline kick that can help her survive the rest of the day. She pushes and she jams, but no one inside the coffee shop helps her pass through, although all the sitters seem physically capable, are in no hurry and are very much enjoying their coffee. Instead of offering help, by pulling their chairs away from her way, they look down on her with a degrading look, as if she was not worthy of that coffee she was ordering, the same coffee they were enjoying on their tables.

Outside on the streets, the limping man is struggling to get to work, which – on an ordinary day – is only a 2-minute walk from where he lives. His foot got twisted while he was running the other day, so he had to wear an ankle brace to help him go around for the coming 4 weeks. Walking under the rain, he steps in water puddles, in the corner between the pavement and the street, which makes it uncomfortable for him to have a wet foot and a wet ankle brace, but he moves on anyway. Both hands busy, he was carrying a business suitcase and some plan rolls. Entering the building where he works, is not an easy task. With a limp and two busy hands, he struggles to keep the door open and enter. A man having breakfast at the cafe next to that door was watching him struggle with total emotional detachment, as he finished his breakfast. and he did not get up to open the door for that limping man.

Finally, the homeless already familiar with the crowd’s non-stop streaming flow, he stands at the side of the road, and repeats: “God is good. God is great. God is making no mistakes.” Still, no one gives him attention. He just sings to stay alive, because if he stops believing in what he sings, he will die.

It is certainly worth wondering why has the crowd lost their sense of chivalry? Is it because they are in a hurry, or because no one had helped them when they had really needed help in the past?

If that’s so, then maybe what goes around, comes around, and these willingly unhelpful people may end up needing help someday and not have it, because other people maybe in a hurry too.

We believe that there is nothing better than helping one another, because when you do, you are most likely to receive help when you most need it. Finally, I would like to conclude with what Ellen ends her show regularly: “Be kind to one another”.



Hi, I am Coach Razan Kilani. I am certified by the International Coach Federation as a PCC. I have coached over 35 clients for over 1500 hours. I love my work! It's been such an honor for me to share my clients' lives, troubles, achievements and precious moments. Together, we nurtured their paths and mine towards success and happiness. My job interprets who I am and very much enables me to fulfill my innermost values in life, such as giving, understanding, respecting, caring and going on perseveringly. I established Wisdom Within Consultancy over 6 years ago, and has catered to wide ranges of my clients, of all ages, circumstances, and challenges. At Wisdom Within Consultancy, we offer Emotional Intelligence highly Certified Coaching to individuals and groups, comprising all ages and different fields of work. We coach business groups, yet we do focus on the person interacting in the different aspects of his or her life (parenting, relationship and work). Coach Razan empowers you to achieve goals you have always wanted to achieve, and to overcome obstacles that are hindering your progress in life and work. With over 6 years of international experience, I would love to support you to find your inner voice, and live the life you wish to live, in order to be happy, successful and content. Contact me on and begin your life changing journey! If you feel stuck in any way, then Wisdom Within Coaching can help you. Low self-confidence, work-life balance, emotional intelligence, social anxiety, weight loss, reducing your social and emotional anxiety and stress, improving your or your employees' performance, finding time to meditate or to spend time with your loved ones and if you need help in realizing your dream goals, get the work you want, etc. then please contact us on We can help you get unstuck and move toward the life you really want to live from now on. Join us!

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